Colorism in the Black Community

Where do people get there ideas of beauty? Without a doubt I will say the media. Everyday people are bombarded with images about what is beautiful. This has proven to be detrimental as little girls and some suffer with sicknesses like bulimia to stay thin. Most Americans think a thin woman, high cheekbones and have long hair is a nice looking woman. What about us women who aren't thin, and have short hair? Are we not beautiful? Many people ask these questions and go to an extreme by having cosmetic surgery to change our features to be considered beautiful.

In black community many young women struggle ideas of beauty/ Many of us struggle with their weight, our hair is a huge problem (another topic in itself) and there is still some tension darkskinned women and light skinned women. Every since slavery there has been a divide of light skinned sistas and the dark skinned sistas. It is perpetuated on music videos, and movies that light skinned women are more attractive than dark skinned black women. This tension was the central theme in Spike Lee's school days that came out in the 80's. Why are we still so divided about this. We are all beautiful BLACK sistas. Even in 2011 one of Raps biggest superstars perpetuate the ignorance of this idea. Please WAKE UP!

Check out this interesting article on Lil Wayne and his perception of beauty in black women.
http://www.whataboutourdaughters.com/waod/2011/1/10/water-is-wet-and-lil-wayne-doest-like-black-women-a-communit.html

Don't Count Your Chickens Before They Hatch

I'm sure most people have heard this saying atleast one time in their life. I've heard it a few times but I always seem to ignore the simple advice. If you know me then you know I have a few issues with money management. I'm getting better at it but it's still an issue.

I'm supposed to have three checks coming my way, and in my mind and in all actuality I have this money spent. Well, I have nothing, nada, zip coming here until next Friday. I went on a spending spree before I had my money and now I have nothing until next Friday.

If you are reading this post please don't be like me. Save your money until you are 110% sure that you will get it. Maybe next time I will remember not to count my chickens before they hatch.

Peace

BS'ing at the J.O.B.

Today is one of those days were I don't feel like doing too much. I'm at work but my ADD is kicking in and I can't concentrate. So i am bs'ing at the job, hence why i'm on blogger right now. While I'm here I can update you on my goals for the new year.

I haven't begun my work out, but I have began to drink more water. Also, I will be going grocery shopping today. My parents are coworkers are supportive of my cooking goal and are sending me east and healthy recipes to cook at home. I will cook my first meal today!! Wish me luck.

Peace

Thankful

Just when I get in  rut and begin to feel sorry for myself over minor things i realize that their is someone who is worse off than me.  I am blessed beyond belief and am thankful for all the wonderful people who generously shed their awesomeness and light into my life.

God has truly blessed me. I am a witness to the fact that God loves you...ALL of you. I am thankful that I had an opportunity to share God's love on this blog.

Peace

New Year, New Me 2011

Happy New Year!
I hope you all have a prosperous and blessed year. Like many people I decided to make new years resolutions. I will put them on the web to have more pressure in keeping up with these goals.

1. Budget my money better
2. Cook at home more often (This will help me save money, plus I got pots and pans for Christmas)
3. Take a dance class ( I think dancing helps build confidence and it's fun)
4. Get my graduate school applications in
5. Find a church and become active in it (I find it important to find a place of worship to grow more in your faith)
6. Get more involved in my community
7. LOSE WEIGHT!! I think I am now 70lbs overweight and I really want to lose it. I want to be healthy and sexy.

My blog will focus on the goals, so i think this will be interesting.

Comfort

Darkness of the night


One star shining so bright

Overwheled in its beauty

Soothing my soul

Read about a star like this

Men traveled far to greet you

Intellectuals telling me you don't exist

This type of love and comfort couldn't come from man alone

Oh! what greatness will you shower from your thrown.

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Darkness of the night
One star shining so bright
Overwheled in its beauty
Soothing my soul
Read about a star like this
Men traveled far to greet you
Intellectuals telling me you don't exist
This type of love and comfort couldn't come from man alone
Oh! what greatness will you shower from your thrown.