I got this idea from another blog, who was inspired by Esquire magazine. In my opinion these 26 skills will enhance your life for the greater:) Enjoy!
1. Play one card game really: well-it can be poker, rummy, spades (then it's just fun)
2. Learn how to take criticism:
3. Basic car maintenance: Know how to change a flat tire, how to change your oil, how to jump a car. Just because you're a woman doesn't mean you can't be familiar with what's under the hood of your car. Trust me, there is nothing sexy about your car being broke down on the side of the road New Years Eve because your tire is flat... I know all about this!
4. Learn to laugh at yourself: Don't take yourself to seriously
5. Have a favorite author and know why he/she is your favorite author
Be able to do something artistic: play an instrument, sculpting, beading, knitting, etc (gives you a hobby)
6. Have some culture: Start by learning about another country, learn the language, customs, cuisine, folklore and their history
7. Have a stress management strategy: People who suffer from stress tend to be overweight and have problems sleeping at night. Instead of stressing indulge in yoga, humor, remember to not stress the small stuff.
8. Be a TRUTH seeker: don't accept what you are told, go see for yourself. Many people go through life without questioning what you are told. The more questions you ask, the more answers you will get.
9. Be able to perform at least one dance style well: Tango, Merengue, Salsa, Jazz, Ballet, African dance...it's never too late to learn
10. Exude confidence: Project strength with your body language. Stand up straight.
11. Budget your money wisely: Know where your money is going (I need to work on this)
12. Stop worrying about what others think of you: Do what you think is right for you and don't alter your behavior simply to please others
13. Have a way to get centered: I do this through worship. If you aren't exactly a spirtitual person you can do this through journaling, meditation, yoga, or spending time in nature. It is very important to connect with yourself.
14. Learn to receive: Women are able to give but find in difficult to receive. You are worth it!
15. Learn to cook: Cooking can be good for your health and your wallet (working on this too)
16. Think creatively
17. Be authentic
18. Set your own agenda
19. Trust your intuition
20. Be unforgettable
21. Learn to Network: Networking is important in fostering relationships and business contacts
22.Nurture others: Love is the greatest of all the commandments
23. Nurture Yourself: While nurturing others, don't forget to nurture yourself too. Take the time to relax, read a magazine, go for a walk, get your nails done. Take care of yourself so you can take care of others.
24. Learn to make quick decisions: The more decision you make the better you'll get at making them.
25. Learn to forgive yourself: Everyone makes mistakes. learn and grow from them "You did what you knew how to do, and when you knew better, you did better."- Maya Angelou
26.. Most important of all!!! Know that you are never to small to make a huge impact on yourself, the community, and the world. Embrace your Power!
"We ask ourselves, who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented and fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small doesn;t serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people will not feel insecure around you. We were born to manifest the glory of God that is within us. It is not in just some of us; it is in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our pressence automatically liberates other."- Nelson Mandela
In short, embrace fabulous you!
Peace,
Brooks
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