"Nice people end up on welfare" Kelly Cutrone
Everyone has heard the quote "Nice guys finish last" but apparently nice girls do too. It has become so obvious that nice people ( me included) do not get the respect we deserve. Nice is a synonym for push over.
Everytime someone refers to me as nice or sweet I cringe inside. I immediately think "ugh, they think I'm a punk." Recently, a guy I've been involved with confessed he also likes another woman, but likes me too. What the hell? According to him we are totally different but he likes both of our qualities. She's fiesty and I'm sweet. That made me die a little inside.
I'm a naturally nurtring and caring person but in today's world it is so difficult to be nice and be respected. You can't be nice at work or in relationships. You're supposed to be a generous person but society overlooks naturally good people. Oh well, if you can't beat em join em. On a journey to find a balance between nice and stern.
Peace & Blessings,
( No niceness)
Brooks
