Darkness of the night
One star shining so bright
Overwheled in its beauty
Soothing my soul
Read about a star like this
Men traveled far to greet you
Intellectuals telling me you don't exist
This type of love and comfort couldn't come from man alone
Oh! what greatness will you shower from your thrown.
Wednesday, December 22, 2010
Untitled
Darkness of the night
One star shining so bright
Overwheled in its beauty
Soothing my soul
Read about a star like this
Men traveled far to greet you
Intellectuals telling me you don't exist
This type of love and comfort couldn't come from man alone
Oh! what greatness will you shower from your thrown.
One star shining so bright
Overwheled in its beauty
Soothing my soul
Read about a star like this
Men traveled far to greet you
Intellectuals telling me you don't exist
This type of love and comfort couldn't come from man alone
Oh! what greatness will you shower from your thrown.
Love Your Neighbor
It is sometimes easy to get stressed out about what you don't have financially; especially during this time of year when you are encouraged to spend so much money for the Christmas season. As Americans we are very inward and take many things for granted such as food, water, shelter, electricity and many other things. Lets pause and think about how many developing countries in the world cherish these things we take for granted. We also need to pause for millions of Americans who also cherish these items that so many of us don't think twice about.
In North Carolina there are about 12,000 people who are counted as homeless. There are 1,000 homeless people in Guilford County alone. Today, I went to a memorial service for the people who died this year due to homelessness; In Greesboro, NC 11 people died because of this spreading epidemic.
I charge everyone who reads this post to take a moment and think about your neighbor who may not have a home or have food to eat. Donate your time and money to get to know your neighbors. We are all connected so if we person is suffering we are all suffering. Christ said "Love your neighbor". All religions have a basis of goodwill toward your fellow man. If you aren't religious then do it because it's the right thing to do. Many of us are living pay check to pay check so know that the face you try to ignore sleeping under the bridge or holding a sign could very well be yours.
Peace & Love
In North Carolina there are about 12,000 people who are counted as homeless. There are 1,000 homeless people in Guilford County alone. Today, I went to a memorial service for the people who died this year due to homelessness; In Greesboro, NC 11 people died because of this spreading epidemic.
I charge everyone who reads this post to take a moment and think about your neighbor who may not have a home or have food to eat. Donate your time and money to get to know your neighbors. We are all connected so if we person is suffering we are all suffering. Christ said "Love your neighbor". All religions have a basis of goodwill toward your fellow man. If you aren't religious then do it because it's the right thing to do. Many of us are living pay check to pay check so know that the face you try to ignore sleeping under the bridge or holding a sign could very well be yours.
Peace & Love
Tuesday, December 21, 2010
Fashion Forward
I would not consider myself a fashonista but I appreciate beautiful and fabulous things. While browsing different blogs I came across http://www.mylifestylemude.com/. These ladies are absolutely stunning and make fashion look like art. If you are into fashion I would recommend that you check these ladies out. Have a wonderful day world.
Peace,
Brooks
Peace,
Brooks
Monday, December 20, 2010
Wednesday, December 15, 2010
Untitled and unscripted...This thing called life
I don't know if this is healthy but i realize that I view my life like it's a movie. I'm the protagonist in search of finding who I am, searching for truth and very open to the idea of love. I have a soundtrack and everything for my day. This could be a problem as I view it as a romantic comedy which has to have a happy ending. *crosses finger* hoping and hoping for a great and unforgettable happy ending. However, I don't know what the ending will be, such is the mystery of life. Now I need a title for my life. But i've found that being the star of the show for life makes life much more thrilling.
Tuesday, December 14, 2010
26 Skills Every Woman Should Own
I got this idea from another blog, who was inspired by Esquire magazine. In my opinion these 26 skills will enhance your life for the greater:) Enjoy!
1. Play one card game really: well-it can be poker, rummy, spades (then it's just fun)
2. Learn how to take criticism:
3. Basic car maintenance: Know how to change a flat tire, how to change your oil, how to jump a car. Just because you're a woman doesn't mean you can't be familiar with what's under the hood of your car. Trust me, there is nothing sexy about your car being broke down on the side of the road New Years Eve because your tire is flat... I know all about this!
4. Learn to laugh at yourself: Don't take yourself to seriously
5. Have a favorite author and know why he/she is your favorite author
Be able to do something artistic: play an instrument, sculpting, beading, knitting, etc (gives you a hobby)
6. Have some culture: Start by learning about another country, learn the language, customs, cuisine, folklore and their history
7. Have a stress management strategy: People who suffer from stress tend to be overweight and have problems sleeping at night. Instead of stressing indulge in yoga, humor, remember to not stress the small stuff.
8. Be a TRUTH seeker: don't accept what you are told, go see for yourself. Many people go through life without questioning what you are told. The more questions you ask, the more answers you will get.
9. Be able to perform at least one dance style well: Tango, Merengue, Salsa, Jazz, Ballet, African dance...it's never too late to learn
10. Exude confidence: Project strength with your body language. Stand up straight.
11. Budget your money wisely: Know where your money is going (I need to work on this)
12. Stop worrying about what others think of you: Do what you think is right for you and don't alter your behavior simply to please others
13. Have a way to get centered: I do this through worship. If you aren't exactly a spirtitual person you can do this through journaling, meditation, yoga, or spending time in nature. It is very important to connect with yourself.
14. Learn to receive: Women are able to give but find in difficult to receive. You are worth it!
15. Learn to cook: Cooking can be good for your health and your wallet (working on this too)
16. Think creatively
17. Be authentic
18. Set your own agenda
19. Trust your intuition
20. Be unforgettable
21. Learn to Network: Networking is important in fostering relationships and business contacts
22.Nurture others: Love is the greatest of all the commandments
23. Nurture Yourself: While nurturing others, don't forget to nurture yourself too. Take the time to relax, read a magazine, go for a walk, get your nails done. Take care of yourself so you can take care of others.
24. Learn to make quick decisions: The more decision you make the better you'll get at making them.
25. Learn to forgive yourself: Everyone makes mistakes. learn and grow from them "You did what you knew how to do, and when you knew better, you did better."- Maya Angelou
26.. Most important of all!!! Know that you are never to small to make a huge impact on yourself, the community, and the world. Embrace your Power!
"We ask ourselves, who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented and fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small doesn;t serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people will not feel insecure around you. We were born to manifest the glory of God that is within us. It is not in just some of us; it is in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our pressence automatically liberates other."- Nelson Mandela
In short, embrace fabulous you!
Peace,
Brooks
1. Play one card game really: well-it can be poker, rummy, spades (then it's just fun)
2. Learn how to take criticism:
3. Basic car maintenance: Know how to change a flat tire, how to change your oil, how to jump a car. Just because you're a woman doesn't mean you can't be familiar with what's under the hood of your car. Trust me, there is nothing sexy about your car being broke down on the side of the road New Years Eve because your tire is flat... I know all about this!
4. Learn to laugh at yourself: Don't take yourself to seriously
5. Have a favorite author and know why he/she is your favorite author
Be able to do something artistic: play an instrument, sculpting, beading, knitting, etc (gives you a hobby)
6. Have some culture: Start by learning about another country, learn the language, customs, cuisine, folklore and their history
7. Have a stress management strategy: People who suffer from stress tend to be overweight and have problems sleeping at night. Instead of stressing indulge in yoga, humor, remember to not stress the small stuff.
8. Be a TRUTH seeker: don't accept what you are told, go see for yourself. Many people go through life without questioning what you are told. The more questions you ask, the more answers you will get.
9. Be able to perform at least one dance style well: Tango, Merengue, Salsa, Jazz, Ballet, African dance...it's never too late to learn
10. Exude confidence: Project strength with your body language. Stand up straight.
11. Budget your money wisely: Know where your money is going (I need to work on this)
12. Stop worrying about what others think of you: Do what you think is right for you and don't alter your behavior simply to please others
13. Have a way to get centered: I do this through worship. If you aren't exactly a spirtitual person you can do this through journaling, meditation, yoga, or spending time in nature. It is very important to connect with yourself.
14. Learn to receive: Women are able to give but find in difficult to receive. You are worth it!
15. Learn to cook: Cooking can be good for your health and your wallet (working on this too)
16. Think creatively
17. Be authentic
18. Set your own agenda
19. Trust your intuition
20. Be unforgettable
21. Learn to Network: Networking is important in fostering relationships and business contacts
22.Nurture others: Love is the greatest of all the commandments
23. Nurture Yourself: While nurturing others, don't forget to nurture yourself too. Take the time to relax, read a magazine, go for a walk, get your nails done. Take care of yourself so you can take care of others.
24. Learn to make quick decisions: The more decision you make the better you'll get at making them.
25. Learn to forgive yourself: Everyone makes mistakes. learn and grow from them "You did what you knew how to do, and when you knew better, you did better."- Maya Angelou
26.. Most important of all!!! Know that you are never to small to make a huge impact on yourself, the community, and the world. Embrace your Power!
"We ask ourselves, who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented and fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small doesn;t serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people will not feel insecure around you. We were born to manifest the glory of God that is within us. It is not in just some of us; it is in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our pressence automatically liberates other."- Nelson Mandela
In short, embrace fabulous you!
Peace,
Brooks
Dating
I've recently entered into the world of dating. I don't do this much so I do not claim to be an expert in this area. However, I've met the most beautiful, intelligent, driven, arrogant, condescending butthole on this journey. The sad part is idk if I like him or dislike him. We'll see how this turns out.
Peace
Peace
Thursday, October 21, 2010
The Road to Jackson: The BoomBox Classic
Hello World!
I've been M.I.A. from posting blogs, i've been very busy. Brief catch up, I've moved into a new apartment YEA! And been doing some traveling.
So about this posts title... I'm a band head. That mean's that I'm addicted to marching bands, more specifically for me HBCU marching bands. I like the sound, the creativity and the energy that surrounds HBCU bands. It you are a true band head then I'm sure you have heard of Southern University, the Human Jukebox, and Jackson State, the Sonic Boom of the South. These 2 bands have a legacy of possesing aggressive sound.
I've never heard these two bands in person, so I traveled from Greensboro, NC to Jackson, MS to watch a football game and see these bands go to battle. This was an EPIC battle. Please enjoy these pics of my journey to jackson.
Entering Alabama
Home of the JSU Tigers Stadium was Packed Jackson's band
More Pics to Come!
Tuesday, August 17, 2010
Remember, Don't Judge a Book by It's Cover
I've recently decided to go back to school and take a few courses so I can stimulate my mind. I did everything I needed to do for admissions and I thought I had everything together for financial aid. However, the dreaded financial office pulled a fast one and said that I needed to get a Second Degree form signed by the chairperson of my department.
I print off the necessary form and rush to the political science department for the chairperson signature so I can get my money for school. When I walk into the office I am greeted by Ludacris's "My Chick Bad" song and the receptionist just looking at me. She had blond hair, with red highlights and immediately thought she was unprofessional and would not be much help to me.
I asked her if Dr. Mosely was available to see and she informed me that he was in a meeting. . Through her I found out that Dr. Moseley also had to complete a "Plan of Action" list for me in order to get my financial aid. She assured me that she would help in this task because she understands the stress of financial aid.
I've confered with her several times since the first meeting when I needed my form signed for school. Not only is she professional but she is a great ally to have when I needed any help with school. Meeting her reminded me of the old saying you can't judge a book by it's cover.
Peace,
Brooks
I print off the necessary form and rush to the political science department for the chairperson signature so I can get my money for school. When I walk into the office I am greeted by Ludacris's "My Chick Bad" song and the receptionist just looking at me. She had blond hair, with red highlights and immediately thought she was unprofessional and would not be much help to me.
I asked her if Dr. Mosely was available to see and she informed me that he was in a meeting. . Through her I found out that Dr. Moseley also had to complete a "Plan of Action" list for me in order to get my financial aid. She assured me that she would help in this task because she understands the stress of financial aid.
I've confered with her several times since the first meeting when I needed my form signed for school. Not only is she professional but she is a great ally to have when I needed any help with school. Meeting her reminded me of the old saying you can't judge a book by it's cover.
Peace,
Brooks
Monday, August 9, 2010
Cuban Revolution
Last week I decided to go on a mini vaction and ended up staying at my parents house in Durham. I've always loved Durham AKA the Bull City. While at home I caught up with some child hood friends and we hung out and partied like we were in high school again.
On Friday night we ended up in the Tobacco District next to the Durham Bull's stadium. The area is very beautiful, especially in the summer. In the tobacco district there are many night spots to hang out, meet people, have a few drinks and have a good ole time. One place in particular is a new restaurant and bar called Cuban Revolution.
Cuban Revolution is very trendy and features some pop art paintings of iconic people during the 1960's. The food is reasonably priced but is just ok. I would mainly go for the drinks and atmosphere. If you're ever in the Bull City I recommend that you stop by the tobacco district.
Thursday, July 29, 2010
The Truth Shall Set you Free
In my opinion the hardest job while living is being a liar. One lie, turns to another falsehood because it needs support. This lie needs another lie to support it. It's an endless cycle until everything you say is untrue. Hell, all this stories you tell you could have written a book or a good screen play to a movie. But instead you decided to take the hardest job on the planet...Lying
Really! Lying has to be the hardest job. This job is dangerous (someone is liable to beat dat a$$ when they find out nothing you say is the truth), stressful (worried about who will find out about the lies you've told), time consuming (lying is 24/7, no vacation and no paid leave) and it could breaks great relationships. Let's be honest; Who wants to be with a liar? Better yet who wants to be friends with someone who lies?
What is a friend? A friend is someone who shares the same interest as you, someone you can have a good time with, and someone who you can be totally honest with, without fear that they will judge you or talk badly about you. To simplify things a friend is someone you trust.
I value friendship. If you feel you have to lie to me then just don't say anything to me at all. I don't like liars because I can't trust them. If I can't trust you I cannot consider you my friend.
The truth will really set you free. The truth cures the sleepless nights and added pressures of the world. It really does.
But as the saying goes," If you lie, you'll steal, if you'll steal, you'll kill", and I can't stick around for that.
Peace
Really! Lying has to be the hardest job. This job is dangerous (someone is liable to beat dat a$$ when they find out nothing you say is the truth), stressful (worried about who will find out about the lies you've told), time consuming (lying is 24/7, no vacation and no paid leave) and it could breaks great relationships. Let's be honest; Who wants to be with a liar? Better yet who wants to be friends with someone who lies?
What is a friend? A friend is someone who shares the same interest as you, someone you can have a good time with, and someone who you can be totally honest with, without fear that they will judge you or talk badly about you. To simplify things a friend is someone you trust.
I value friendship. If you feel you have to lie to me then just don't say anything to me at all. I don't like liars because I can't trust them. If I can't trust you I cannot consider you my friend.
The truth will really set you free. The truth cures the sleepless nights and added pressures of the world. It really does.
But as the saying goes," If you lie, you'll steal, if you'll steal, you'll kill", and I can't stick around for that.
Peace
Wednesday, July 28, 2010
Time to Clean House
Sigh...As they say, all good things must come to an end. With that said, the time has come, it is finally time to move out of my apartment. There are many things a person has to do to prepare for the big move. My home has to be in the same condition in which I moved in. That is nearly impossible for it to look brand new but there are things I can do to restore it to good condition. This lady here has to pack everyting I need, get rid of excess baggage, and clean house.
I'm cleaning house figuratively and literally. I'm transitioning into a new stage in my life. I really don't know what's next but i'm lightening my load so this move won't be to difficult. Whether I'm in Greensboro, Durham or Atlanta I'm only taking the things I need on this trip. I'm cleaning my house inside and out.
I'm throwing out old baggage, stress, and possibly some people I considered my friends. Keeping the necessities good friends, family, positivity, and welcoming new experiences.
Peace!
Brooks
Thursday, July 8, 2010
The Big Move?
I've shared with everyone that I've been feeling a bit pressured. i have a few things to sort out and time is not on my side. I just found out that I was selected for an interview in Atlanta, Ga for this AmeriCorps position. I believe the position is highly competitive but it seems like something that would suit me.
I'm all for relocating to another city but I will admit, I'm very nervous. I'm nervous about leaving the familiar and the people that I love. If i'm selected I'd leave my friends and the man that I've known and loved for nearly six years.
Change is essential to growth. Challenging yourself and being confortable in uncomfortable situations is my personal definition of growth.
I'm so excited about my interview and yet so nervous. I'm growing up and it's terrifying to think about. Please pray that everything goes well.
Blessings for all,
Brooks
I'm all for relocating to another city but I will admit, I'm very nervous. I'm nervous about leaving the familiar and the people that I love. If i'm selected I'd leave my friends and the man that I've known and loved for nearly six years.
Change is essential to growth. Challenging yourself and being confortable in uncomfortable situations is my personal definition of growth.
I'm so excited about my interview and yet so nervous. I'm growing up and it's terrifying to think about. Please pray that everything goes well.
Blessings for all,
Brooks
Thursday, July 1, 2010
Time
Feeling pressured. Received an email from my supervisor stating that he needed confirmation about if I was going to stay another year with VISTA. Honestly, I wouldn't mind doing it, I just desire higher pay. I have 30 days to find and move into a new place to stay. Time is tight for some decisions that have to be made and I don't know my next move.
However, I can say that I am truly blessed. Decisions have to be made about jobs and housing but at least I have an opportunity to decide about jobs and housing. I sometimes vent but I know things could be worse.
I have a few days and I'll continue to be aggressive about my search. Until next time...
Peace and Blessings,
Brooks
However, I can say that I am truly blessed. Decisions have to be made about jobs and housing but at least I have an opportunity to decide about jobs and housing. I sometimes vent but I know things could be worse.
I have a few days and I'll continue to be aggressive about my search. Until next time...
Peace and Blessings,
Brooks
Tuesday, June 22, 2010
Feeling Myself
A long time ago I've convinced myself that I'm going to make it in this world. I recently got a position as a freelance journalist with examiner.com, an online newspaper. The pay isn't great but I'm a publisher journalist! How many people can say that??..Well probably a good number but check me out. http://www.examiner.com/examiner/x-52425-Greensboro-Places--Faces-Examiner~y2010m6d6-Friday-night-fun
Peace&Blessings,
Brooks
Peace&Blessings,
Brooks
Sunday, June 6, 2010
No More Ms. Nice Girl
"Nice people end up on welfare" Kelly Cutrone
Everyone has heard the quote "Nice guys finish last" but apparently nice girls do too. It has become so obvious that nice people ( me included) do not get the respect we deserve. Nice is a synonym for push over.
Everytime someone refers to me as nice or sweet I cringe inside. I immediately think "ugh, they think I'm a punk." Recently, a guy I've been involved with confessed he also likes another woman, but likes me too. What the hell? According to him we are totally different but he likes both of our qualities. She's fiesty and I'm sweet. That made me die a little inside.
I'm a naturally nurtring and caring person but in today's world it is so difficult to be nice and be respected. You can't be nice at work or in relationships. You're supposed to be a generous person but society overlooks naturally good people. Oh well, if you can't beat em join em. On a journey to find a balance between nice and stern.
Peace & Blessings,
( No niceness)
Brooks
Tuesday, June 1, 2010
A Bad Case of the SGEB
Like many Americans I have recently got a bad case of the SGEB's (Seeking Gainful Employment Blues). I currently serve as an AmeriCorps Volunteer, but I make little money. I can barely live off what I get paid. I'm not complaining, I just know that it is time for a change.
I've been living on the east side of Greensboro for 6 years with students and now that I am no longer a student it's difficult for me to deal with loud music, fights, vandalism, the smell of marijuana, black and milds, and cigarettes. It is time for me to move into a big girl apartment. The type of apartment with quiet neighbors, decorated nicely, and professional men all im my community.
Oh how I LONG to live in the big girl apartment! But in order to live in the big girl apartment, you have to have a big girl money, and that's where the problem lies. And here I sit typing with a case of the SGEB's.
I've been searching for months for gainful employment. Part-time, full-time, retail, clerical, customer service, hospitality...etc I've explored all options. I've updated my resume, wrote the best cover letter a girl could write, but still no jobs.
The seeking gainful employment blues has got me down. Side effects include fatigue from staying up all night completing job applications, random sighs while driving when you see a charming house, and anger while driving because of outrageous gas prices.
If anyone is reading or knows anyone who knows anyone who is hiring please feel free to spread the word. I am the ideal candidate for the job. Self motivated, friendly, dilligent worker, skillful and more I'm everything a potential employer is looking for.
Someone please hire me so I won't have the SGEB's.
Peace & Blessings,
Brooks
I've been living on the east side of Greensboro for 6 years with students and now that I am no longer a student it's difficult for me to deal with loud music, fights, vandalism, the smell of marijuana, black and milds, and cigarettes. It is time for me to move into a big girl apartment. The type of apartment with quiet neighbors, decorated nicely, and professional men all im my community.
Oh how I LONG to live in the big girl apartment! But in order to live in the big girl apartment, you have to have a big girl money, and that's where the problem lies. And here I sit typing with a case of the SGEB's.
I've been searching for months for gainful employment. Part-time, full-time, retail, clerical, customer service, hospitality...etc I've explored all options. I've updated my resume, wrote the best cover letter a girl could write, but still no jobs.
The seeking gainful employment blues has got me down. Side effects include fatigue from staying up all night completing job applications, random sighs while driving when you see a charming house, and anger while driving because of outrageous gas prices.
If anyone is reading or knows anyone who knows anyone who is hiring please feel free to spread the word. I am the ideal candidate for the job. Self motivated, friendly, dilligent worker, skillful and more I'm everything a potential employer is looking for.
Someone please hire me so I won't have the SGEB's.
Peace & Blessings,
Brooks
Sunday, May 30, 2010
24K
I celebrated my 24th birthday two days ago. The week of my birthday I was very excited about my big day. I was going to hang out with my friend Keshia in Winston, then I was going to party that Saturday. As 12 am I realized that I was going to be alone for my birthday. This was the first time I was totally alone at the start of my birthday. Years prior I've been with boo, family and/or friends. An overwhelming sense of loneliness began to come over me. I was hoping my guy friend would come and hang out with me but I heard nothing from him.
12 am came and I was officially 24 years old. The text messages began to roll in from friends and well wishers. I went to bed feeling totally alone and woke up alone. I'll be honest, I was pissed with the guy I was seeing. He wasn't with me and he sent a "Happy bday!!!" text like we aren't way more than that. I was sitting in my house sulking. I had to leave and do something for me. I went shopping for a birthday outfit.
That made me feel a little better, then I went to lunch with a good friend. She always brings good energy. I was telling her about the funk I was in and she made me aware that I was never alone. She is absolutely right. I'm never alone. I have a supportive family, good friends, and I'm blessed. True, my guy sucks sometimes but I have so many positive things in my life. I have too many blessings to count. Thank you God for another year. I have 24 years on me. 24karats baby! Doesn't get any better than that.
Peace & Blessings,
Brooks
12 am came and I was officially 24 years old. The text messages began to roll in from friends and well wishers. I went to bed feeling totally alone and woke up alone. I'll be honest, I was pissed with the guy I was seeing. He wasn't with me and he sent a "Happy bday!!!" text like we aren't way more than that. I was sitting in my house sulking. I had to leave and do something for me. I went shopping for a birthday outfit.
That made me feel a little better, then I went to lunch with a good friend. She always brings good energy. I was telling her about the funk I was in and she made me aware that I was never alone. She is absolutely right. I'm never alone. I have a supportive family, good friends, and I'm blessed. True, my guy sucks sometimes but I have so many positive things in my life. I have too many blessings to count. Thank you God for another year. I have 24 years on me. 24karats baby! Doesn't get any better than that.
Peace & Blessings,
Brooks
Tuesday, May 25, 2010
Better days
My mother always told me if you can't say anything nice don't say anything at all. Therefore I want say some things. I'm frustrated with msy job. We do good work but I wish some things were different.
Due to my frustration I've had an epiphany. I now know that it is time for me to move on. I need to go back to school and pursue my master's. Everyday isn't going to be a great day but I shouldn't have to dread going to work EVERYDAY.
So while I try to hold on until September to finish my 1 year committment I'll echo the sentiments of my guy Anthony "I'm holding on to the future for my better days"
Due to my frustration I've had an epiphany. I now know that it is time for me to move on. I need to go back to school and pursue my master's. Everyday isn't going to be a great day but I shouldn't have to dread going to work EVERYDAY.
So while I try to hold on until September to finish my 1 year committment I'll echo the sentiments of my guy Anthony "I'm holding on to the future for my better days"
Sunday, May 23, 2010
The Mr. Big Ride
Like many women I know "Sex and the City" holds a special place in my heart. Carrie, Samantha, Miranda and Charlotte remind me of my girlfriends and myself. My favorite thing about the show is the relationship between Carrie and Mr. Big. Big is so handsome and charming but he comes with so much baggage.Ladies, why are we constantly attracted to the man with baggage? He's smooth, funny, and usually good in bed but this man can't committ. He's everything you want in a man except he gets ghost. Why does Big have so much baggage?
I understand Carrie's rollercoaster ride with Big. You all know the Mr. Big ride. Your emotions are high because he's all into you and then emotions are low because he needs to figure out what he wants. Like Carrie, my guy was older and so interesting. I loved being him but he always had an excuse of why we could not fully committ. I was on this ride for six years. But with all rollercoasters there has to be an end.
Ladies and gentleman, as we wait in anticipation of Sex and the City 2 please let's not so blind in believing that our Mr. or Mrs. Big will come around. Carrie had to wait 10 years! People rollercoaster are great, the ride is fun but you have to get off and step into reality.
Peace and Blessings,
Brooks
Wednesday, May 19, 2010
Forgotten History
Most people in Greensboro know about the A&T 4, the four freshman who are credited with starting the Sit-in movement during the civil rights era of American history.
But have you heard of the Greensboro Massacre or have you heard of Kwame Cannon? Let's remember our history. I'll write more on this subject but for lack of time follow this link. It is very interesting. Please, let's not forget history.
Peace & Blessings,
Brooks
Relationship Strain
Ladies and gentlemen, boys and girls it has been a long time since I've been in a relationship and in my first week of commitment I have found one thing to be true...cellular phone plans and service can MAKE or BREAK your relationship.
it's frustrating because we're not in the same city and his phone plan sucks. I thought most legitimate cell phone companies nights started at 7 but not his. I'm not that type of person who needs to talk all day. I prefer not to, but a simple text to say "hey, just thinking of you" would be nice. I can't get that because he doesn't have text messages.
Relationships are not easy, both parties have to put effort into making it work. However, conflicting schedules and different cell phone providers is making this more difficult than I expected. So for all my people who are doing the long distance thing AND have different cell phone providers I am in solidarity with you. Stay positive.
Peace & Blessings,
Brooks
Thursday, May 13, 2010
Hell...I can't call it
If you asked me six years ago how would my life be in six years I would have told you I'd graduate in four years with a degree in electrical engineering making big money. Needless to say, life didn't pan out the way I expected it to. I graduated in five years with a degree in Professional History. I work almost 40 hours a week at a non-profit and make little to no money, but it's all good. I've found what I wanted to do, I have a passion for helping people and improving bad situations.
But the biggest thing that is a surprise to me is my love life. After 4 years of dealing with a man 13 years older than me I now am in a relationship with a guy 3 years YOUNGER than me. I'm slightly old fashioned and believe that I woman should date a man her age or older. However, I had to go out on a limb and give my coco a chance. If i could deal with a guy 13 years older than me I'll be able to deal with a guy closer my age. I still have my reservations about dating a younger man, but I'm not going to sabotage this based on my ideologies of relationships and dating.
I only have my dreams and can only work hard to achieve my goals.So, farewell to all predictions on life because I clearly can't call it!
Peace,
Brooks
But the biggest thing that is a surprise to me is my love life. After 4 years of dealing with a man 13 years older than me I now am in a relationship with a guy 3 years YOUNGER than me. I'm slightly old fashioned and believe that I woman should date a man her age or older. However, I had to go out on a limb and give my coco a chance. If i could deal with a guy 13 years older than me I'll be able to deal with a guy closer my age. I still have my reservations about dating a younger man, but I'm not going to sabotage this based on my ideologies of relationships and dating.
I only have my dreams and can only work hard to achieve my goals.So, farewell to all predictions on life because I clearly can't call it!
Peace,
Brooks
Wednesday, May 12, 2010
Mommy I want to be,..
As a young adult I still have a hard time answering the question "What do you want to be when you grow up?" Seems like after 5 years of college (yes 5 years!) I would be able to answer that so called simple question. Well today my friends I have an answer!
I want to be...
an author
a photographer
musician
documentarist
teacher
philanthropist
Momma I want to do it all. But where do I start??
I want to be...
an author
a photographer
musician
documentarist
teacher
philanthropist
Momma I want to do it all. But where do I start??
Letter to my Virtual Audience
Dear Virtual Audience,
The point of a blog is to express yourself with word so that the audience can become more familiar with the writer. I'll be honest in the tellings of my journey through love, career moves, and the daily goings of my life. I hope we can become good acquaintancies With that being said, please come back again. I look forward to builing a relationship with u, you...and definitely YOU.
Peace and Blessings,
Brooks
The point of a blog is to express yourself with word so that the audience can become more familiar with the writer. I'll be honest in the tellings of my journey through love, career moves, and the daily goings of my life. I hope we can become good acquaintancies With that being said, please come back again. I look forward to builing a relationship with u, you...and definitely YOU.
Peace and Blessings,
Brooks
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